My ASD Child

When most people think of autism, they imagine a child who is cautious, structured, and predictable. But the teenage years bring new dimensions—curiosity, independence, and sometimes risky behaviors that can shock even the most prepared parents. Autistic teenagers, like all teens, explore boundaries. Yet their reasoning processes, social understanding, and sensory experiences may heighten danger or obscure it. Parents who once worried about meltdowns or communication now find themselves facing new concerns: wandering, online vulnerability, sexual safety, impulsive behavior, or even encounters with the law. This chapter helps parents navigate those complex realities with compassion and practical structure. You’ll learn how to understand risk through the autistic lens, respond to danger without panic, and teach your teen self‑protection skills that respect their growing autonomy. Why Risk Can Look Different for Autistic Teens Impulsivity and poor situational awareness: Executive ...

Technology has become one of the defining features of teenage life. For autistic adolescents, screens, games, and online communities often carry even deeper significance. A video game may be more than just entertainment—it may be a structured world with clear rules that feels safer than unpredictable social interactions. Online platforms may be the first places where an autistic teen finds like‑minded friends who share their passions. But parents often feel caught between appreciation and alarm. Hours spent gaming can crowd out family time, homework, or sleep. Online risks, including cyberbullying or unsafe interactions, raise valid concerns. Parents may worry: “Is my child addicted to gaming? Or is this their way of coping and connecting?” This chapter explores how parents can understand their teen’s relationship with technology, set compassionate boundaries, and transform screens from a source of conflict into an opportunity for growth. Why Technology Holds Such Appeal for Autist...

Parenting any teenager comes with emotional ups and downs. But for parents of autistic teens, emotional outbursts and meltdowns can feel particularly intense, unpredictable, and exhausting. What may look like “overreaction” is often the visible tip of an iceberg—weeks of accumulated stress, sensory overload, or the fatigue of constant social effort. This chapter explores how to understand the roots of meltdowns, respond with compassion, and build preventive systems that reduce escalation. Parents cannot eliminate meltdowns entirely, but they can transform how their family experiences them. Understanding Emotional Outbursts in Autistic Teens Meltdown vs. tantrum: A tantrum is usually driven by a goal (to get something). A meltdown is a nervous system overload where self‑control is lost. Shutdowns: The quieter cousin of meltdowns—teens may withdraw, go non‑verbal, or seem “frozen.” Triggers: Common causes include sensory overload, unexpected changes, prolonged social mask...